Archive for the 'toxic love' Category

Suicide By Toxic Love

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

Love can kill you, there’s no doubt about it.  You are who you love.   If you love the wrong person or wrong people, you’re a goner.   No one can hurt or destroy us like someone we trust, someone we believed would be loyal, someone who betrayed us and made our hearts and souls jaded.  Love can […]

Depression: Who Hurt You ?

Friday, February 8th, 2008

Depression is anger directed inward.  For some reason, sometimes when we are hurt by others, we turn the pain inside and suffer.  I can remember so many clients I saw in therapy who were being treated miserably at work or at home but did not want to face up to the problem.  Instead, they unconsciously ’sucked […]

Depression: When Giving Up Can Be a Good Thing

Thursday, January 17th, 2008

We have a culture which tells us that it is good to tough things out, to overcome, and to keep going.  Sometimes that is very bad advice for someone who has tried about everything possible and still is suffering.  All things cannot be fixed.  All relationships cannot be saved.  All careers cannot be salvaged.  Some […]